Tributes to Chinedu

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From:

Obinna Ekwunife (Brother)

Adieu My Intelligent and Generous Nedu

With gratitude and a heart filled with praise, we thank the Almighty God for the short but fulfilled life He granted Chinedu on earth. We give glory to God because as Christians, we firmly believe that death is not the end, but a transition to a better life. St Maria Maravillas de Jesus taught us that “death is no more than falling blindly into the arms of God”. St Therese of Lisieux while on earth taught us that “the world is thy ship and not thy home.

Chinedu died a true Christian. He was not afraid of death. His messages before he went into the intensive care unit (ICU) on April 6th 2020 were: "God's will, whatever happens, I don't mind", "I'm hoping for the best though", "I'm not scared". He prepared himself very well to meet his creator. We are certain that we have another advocate in heaven as Chinedu is in the bosom of the Lord. Nevertheless, we are filled with nostalgia for his demise. We would have loved to spend more time with the promising and intelligent Chinedu, but God had better plans for him.

I wish to use this opportunity to share some fun memories I had with Chinedu, my immediate younger brother. Chinedu is super intelligent and a nerd. As his senior brother, I had a difficult time in most intellectual competitions we engaged in as kids. In our primary school days, we used to pick two words and then write an essay with the two words. At the end of the timed exercise, we will exchange notes and peer review the essay. I was perplexed at the level of command of the English language he had, someone that was four years my junior. Often, I will intimidate him into believing that I was better than him. However, in my heart of hearts, I knew his essay was way better. If I remember correctly, I think he missed the first position in his class only two terms in his entire primary school stage. He continued in the same way throughout secondary school, emerged as the best graduating student in Federal Government College Enugu and often winning prestigious awards like Cowbell Essay Competition, Mathematics Challenge etc. He emerged as the best student in electronic engineering set of 2003 and proceeded for masters in the UK on fully-funded scholarship.

Chinedu was a very generous person. I often tease him that he is quick to spend as he thinks less for himself and more for other people. I can’t forget the life-saving loan he gave me out of his fully-funded scholarship offered to him by The National Information Technology Development Agency (NITDA) for his master's studies in the UK. I was then at a period of job transition since the company I was working for at that time had tight cash flow and needed to downsize. It was a difficult time for me since I had to get a house and a car as the job came with housing in a prime location in Lagos and an official car. Chinedu visited my house then in Lagos as he was preparing to leave for his master's studies in the UK. When he learned of my predicament, he immediately loaned me part of his fully-funded scholarship money. He never complained even when I defaulted with the loan repayment, which in turn made life a bit uncomfortable for him in the UK. For me, it was a great act of generosity and charity which I will never forget.

I have so many fun memories of Chinedu which makes me want to cry whenever I remember his death. Chinedu, we would have loved to spend more time with you here on earth, but God had a better plan for you. God’s will is the best and we completely accept His will. In Chinedu’s words, which he used in a Whatsapp conversation with my sister (Kosolu) during his brief recovery in the ICU before relapse, “catch you later”.

From:

Kosoluchukwu Ekwunife (Sister)

‘God’s will’, ‘Whatever happens, I don’t mind’, ‘Sis, didn’t see this coming’, ‘I’ll be gone’, ‘Guys I’ll be away in coma for about 2 weeks’, ‘Ok bye now, see you soon’.
Seeing these messages drop on the family chat group that faithful night of April 6th, just before you were sedated in the ICU of Ipswich General Hospital, brought tears to my eyes. I wept that night because I wasn’t sure what to make of the messages, and also because for the first time, I thought of the possibility of losing you. Having learned from mum’s disposition before dad’s demise in 2017, that the best gift one can give a dying person is to prepare him/her to meet God, I summoned the courage to ask you to pray for God’s forgiveness and mercy (just in case…). When you replied, ‘Already did’, I was at peace.

Edumo Ned E, as I would normally hail you, I want to thank you.

First, for being an awesome older brother, a mentor, an adviser and a friend. By closely following your footsteps and heeding to your advice, I have been able to attain heights I thought were never possible: graduating with a First Class, attending Cambridge University, going for a PhD degree etc. You always encouraged, motivated and supported me to be the best version of myself. As an adviser, you also taught me to build and nourish my relationships with others. You had a gifted way of playing the ‘what if’ scenarios which helped me appreciate other possibilities and points of views. As a friend, you constantly called to ensure I was alright especially at my difficult moments.

Second, for being very generous. All of us who took time to really get to know you appreciate this wonderful quality of yours. You were generous with your time, treasures and knowledge. You gave even when it was not convenient for you. It pleased you to see others happy and successful. I pray that I’m able to inculcate and replicate your spirit of generosity.

I also want to thank you, for leading an exemplary life. I will always be the proud sister of the very brilliant and well behaved Chinedu Ekwunife. You were not only smart and disciplined but very courageous. I won’t say you were really extroverted, but you spoke for what you felt was just even when every other person was afraid to speak. You were also a loving husband, a proud dad, a caring son and a great brother. I’m sure relatives, colleagues and friends are so proud of you.

Lastly, for teaching that we allow the will of God to take precedence. You lived out this principle all your life. Even in you last days, you had prayed for God’s will.

I know I will miss the phone calls, the laughter, the brotherly care, the love, and all. However, the peace that enveloped me on April 6th has kept me going. I have no doubt that you’re resting in the bosom of the Lord. Borrowing your words, I’m saying ‘catch you later’.

From:

Chukwuemeka Ekwunife (Brother)

Edubrazil as I fondly call you, Mekus your usual reply. I don't know what to write in your tribute. I lack words to describe who and what you mean to me. Where do I start, is it your generosity or is it your hard work and astuteness. You are a well-balanced personality, cheerful, optimistic, confident, and friendly. Your exit from this world is indeed a big loss. You faced death with your usual confidence, you were not scared but yielded to the will of God. We are confident you are now resting in a better place where you await us. We are going to do our best to look after your young family and uphold your legacy. I am going to miss those regular phone calls filled with boisterous laughter that usually lifts my spirit. I am going to miss the compassion of a dear brother who is always willing to help the other. I am going to miss your advice and words of encouragement. I am going to miss you so much.

I thank the Good Lord for having you as a brother even for so short a time, I am very proud of you.
Edubrazil, my brother. it is well. Wait for us, pray for us, and rest in peace.

One more thing, I will always keep you in my prayers.

Adieu, Beloved Brother.

From:

Ifeyinwa Ekwunife (Sister)

My brother Chinedu was a man like no other. He made sure I lacked nothing, he nurtured me, taught me, provided for me, fought for me, reprimanded me and most importantly he loved me unconditionally.

There are not enough words to describe just how important Chinedu was to me and what a powerful influence he will continue to have in my life.

I love you so much my beloved brother Ned. May your soul rest in the bosom of the Lord. We will meet someday to part no more.

Rest on my sponsor.

From:

Onyeoma (Family Friend)

Nedu my man,

Still in shock and heartbroken at your passing.
You fought with great strength but God wanted you home. I believe you are now in a better place and free from pain.

I’ll miss seeing your smiles.
I’ll miss our beep and wave most mornings as I drive past yours to work.
I’ll miss our chit chat after mass.
I’ll miss you saying ‘Onyeoma, gi na Nkem bu ezigbo role model’!
I’ll miss our Christmas time get together at mine.

I promise my family and I will do our utmost to take care of and support Lotachi, Chimmy and your unborn child!

RIP Nedu!

Heaven surely gained and angel!

From:

Ozioma Uzoegwu (Friend)

Chinedu, I am still in a very big shock after hearing about your passing away in the late hours of Sunday, 14th of June 2020. You were a real fighter and tried your very best for over two and a half months fighting the dreadful COVID-19 disease. Even in your sickbed, you made big news in the hospital, with the doctors and nurses amazed by your fighting spirit and rooting for you to fully recover. The past weeks have been difficult for everyone especially Lotachi, your wife who is expecting your new baby, and your little 2-year-old daughter Chimamanda who has been asking after daddy. You did everything possible to stay strong for them but God had his plans.

I can still remember the very first day we met in 2005, your dedication and passion to succeed was contagious. You were one of the smartest guys I have ever met and you inspired everyone around you on what it means to work hard and achieve greatness. Like Isaac Newton said, “If I have seen further, it is by standing on the shoulders of Giants.” This quote characterises exactly our relationship in Uni. You were my mentor and paved the way for me, ensuring I don’t make the same mistakes and providing valuable insights that enabled me to succeed in school. We both had ambitions to graduate Uni with first-class honors and am happy we both achieved it and I know it would not have been possible without your support!

Leaving Nigeria to relocate to the UK was always going to be a challenge but you grabbed the opportunity and the challenge with both hands. You started with your masters at the University of Southampton and worked hard to build a future for yourself and your family in the UK. I remember when you moved to Ipswich, I was really happy I now have a long time friend very close. You quickly settled in and made a lot of friends within the Ipswich Community. In November 2017, I was privileged to be the best man at your wedding here in Ipswich. It was a wonderful day seeing you and Lotachi tie the knot, exactly what you always wanted, to build a family here in the UK and nurture, provide and support them. I am really happy you achieved that and even though it was short you cherished and spent a wonderful time with your family.

I can’t forget those football games with the other boys at Uhere Study Center; those evenings at your place with you plotting the new academic session to help me succeed (this became a yearly ritual!). Then when you moved to Ipswich, those swap lunch dates, you guys coming to ours and vice versa; the lovely bbq at Chimamanda’s birthday; the outings at various Naija events; the table tennis games at your place (still can’t believe I only beat you once); those board games (can vividly remember your face when my wife beat you once after you have been beating everyone!); the charade games we played at your place (that was fun man!). These and many more are memories I will cherish and keep close to my heart.

Edu it is difficult to swallow this huge loss, we are all behind your family and will be doing everything to support them in this difficult time. As you keep watching over us from above, we will continue to hold on to the good times we had together and ensure your legacy lives on. Rest in peace my friend and may the good Lord continue to shine his perpetual light on you.

From:

Mrs. Theresa Ekwunife (Mother)

Chinedu, I Love You but God Loves You More.

Rest in perfect peace... Amen

From:

Madueke Fabian (UNN Classmate)

I have lost a brother, a very dear one and my heart bleeds. Chinedu Ekwunife was a friend, a classmate, a partner and an astute engineer. A very intelligent fellow, who gets along with everyone very easily.

I met Chinedu, during our early days in the university, the moment we spoke, our interest latches on like a lock and it got stuck afterwards.

He was loved by everyone in our class and was willing to share knowledge, his mind set flows like air and colorless like water.

He succeeds at everything he touches and was such an ingenious young man. He was my best friend and a partner, we lived together even after school and worked together on different interesting projects. We had bigger plans, to make the world & Nigeria a better place.

I'm so sadden that such a smart fellow is gone, I couldn't still believe it, yet I'm writing this message.

His death rippled like a wave through me and our entire class, sending a cold chill through the spin, that weakens our bones. He literally died still talking to us, from the moment he felt sick to the moment he went into the Intensive Care Unit (ICU). Even then, he was full of optimism and still focused.

We have lost an irreplaceable young and brilliant man, a beautiful mind and a very resourceful person, picture Chinedu in the next 20 to 40 years and see what he would have become.

He was a good christian, a genius, an IT guru and a colleague with like mind, I miss him so much already, we had so much memorable moments together, and we are looking at various ways to immortalized him.

I pray that God will grant his family and love ones the fortitude to bear this great loss.

May he find favour in the Lord, my dear brother Chinedu, farewell and rest in the Lord, till we meet to part no more, Amen.

From:

Obioma Nwabueze (UNN Classmate)

"Nedu bros, really shocked that you are gone. I recollect the time we had as classmates in UNN. The collaborations and discussions we had;
and how some of us got together to work on a solution. You will surely be missed...

I believe you are in a better place resting in the bosom of the Lord. And I pray for God to strengthen and provide for your young family always in Jesus name. Amen. "

From:

Chiagozie Peter (UNN Classmate)

Everything happens for a reason,
The thought of never seeing you again brings tears to my eyes,
And even more so,
Because all of this was such a surprise.
But we should never question what God has planned,
Sometimes it's not meant for us to understand.
So as we sit here and mourn the loss of Chinedu Ekwunife
I pray God almighty grant you peace of mind
And in our hearts you'll keep living forever.
Rest well beloved friend

From:

Aladino Nathan (UNN Classmate)

NED E, a friend like a brother

From:

Ona Ata (UNN Classmate)

Chinedu, as I write this, it is still extremely difficult to believe that you are actually gone. However, I see it that you have left this terrible world and gone to be with the Lord.

Each day I look back, still with a lot of pain, I can only think of very good memories.....from the first time we met as first year students of Electronic Engineering at University of Nigeria Nsukka where you introduced yourself (You asked for my origin and when I replied ‘Awka’, you were excited seeing 'a sister' in relation to Nibo your hometown) to our last chat just a few months before you departed this world.

I remember learning about your Christian commitments as a student and how I admired it.

I remember how you would dissect the difficult topics in tutorial classes and make them look so simple.

I remember our times as members of BKADD (Better Keep All Designs Digital) while in school.

I remember the first comment on my wall when I joined Facebook in 2008 was from you saying “Welcome to the club”.

I remember your visits in Lagos during our National Youth Service Corp in 2010-2011 and always wanting to know how we were doing and getting on. I have been going back reading our chats from post NYSC during our hussles (from one application to the other, down to your business strides, jobs etc) till when you left for your Masters. How time flew!

While we lost contact for a while, we reconnected again 3 years ago and it was still the same Chinedu who was always focused and keen on getting better in every area.

You were a very open minded and easy going guy; never shy about speaking your mind. You knew how to challenge someone to become better. You were a goal getter, driven and passionate about life. You were a giver… whenever there was a course to donate, you were the first to give to encourage others to do same.

When we spoke a few months ago, you promised to visit but for some reasons that didn't happen. Perhaps we should have found a way to still meet just one more time in this life. But I am comforted in the word of God that tells me in 1st Thessalonians 4:17 that in the end “….we will always be with the Lord.”

Since the night of 6th April 2020 when you sent a photo of you on oxygen mask in hospital along with those last words of "Please pray for me" , I want you to know that my prayers for you never stopped. Even after sending you messages the following day which were not delivered, I made it a point of duty to track it's delivery which was meant to be a sign that your phone was back on and perhaps a sign that you were getting better. On 5th May, finally the messages got delivered and out of excitement, I told my sisters "Chinedu's phone is finally on"...we were all excited, praising God!

Since then you continued to improve and fight on until this last relapse. People might ask - even with all the prayers and thanksgiving, why did you have to go? Why did God allow you to leave us? Why do these things happen to good people. You were indeed a good man and a good friend. It is very simple - God wanted another angel for Him. Did He not consider those you have left behind, people may ask again? - .....I believe God alone knows this and we are told in 1 Corinthians 10:13 - God is faithful, and He will not let us be tested beyond our strength but with the testing he will also provide the way out so that you may be able to endure it…

You are in a better place now Chinedu, rejoicing with the rest of the angels.

Indeed you have left behind a beautiful family (Lotachi your wife, Chimamanda your daughter and the unborn child), siblings and mum. You have left us your friends, but be rest assured that your memory will never die. You will be forever remembered Ned. You were too good to go now; I am however consoled by the fact that despite this short life, you indeed left visible footprints in the sands of time and that we will all eventually meet to part no more. No one has anything negative to say about you, never!

I will never forget your infections smile Edu.

You will live on in my heart edumo!

Nwanne m jee nke oma.

Adieu Chinedu!

From:

Dennis Okike (UNN Classmate)

Edu..., my good friend words fail me , i still see your face but i know you are in a better place, you have done nothing wrong but God knows best, you would be dearly missed, i know i can’t bring you back but in my heart i know you still exist within us still... you approached me at epo ref to say hi because my jamb score was pretty high... we made friends but i had a different path from yours and it became clear with time... rest well my good friend and may God grant your lovely family d fortitude to bear this loss, we also lost a dear close Neighbor to d cold hands of death in the early hours of Jun 21,2020

so it really hasn’t been such a bright day! Farewell till we see again in the great beyond when the Good Lord calls us!!

From:

Ernest Offor Ugwoke (UNN Classmate)

The news following the departure of a brave, dedicated, intelligent, unassuming and an

inspiring young man -Mr. Chinedu Ekwunife from this evil world to the great beyond left

most of us who knew him devastated, shocked and crying helplessly. Chinedu was no

doubt an easy-going friend, a high performer, great achiever and a down-to-earth

personality. He had always exuded confidence, cheerfulness and a high sense of maturity

since 2004 we first met as undergraduate students of the University of Nigeria. Gracious

are words that came out of his mouth. His was an epitome of inspiration. I had watched

him both closely and remotely and came to the conclusion with this title that he is a son of

encouragement. He always strengthened the weak and revived the strong. What an

endowment from above! Engr. Chinedu Ekwunife was a stabilizing force of our set – 2004

UNN Electronic Engineering students. We will miss his sense of humor and great wisdom

cum analytical acumen. Though Edu died young at the prime of life, his life was quite

eventful and immensely characterized with a lot of inspiration. I am particularly consoled

by the fact that Edu died a believer- united with Christ in both life and death. The bible puts

it well that “ so precious in the sight of God is the death of the righteous” (Ps 116: 15).

Adieu Brother Chinedu Ekwunife. Pray for us that we do not falter. And may God whose

servant you are, grant you peace and joy in His bosom through Christ our Lord, amen.

From:

Bryan Ofoegbu (UNN Classmate)

Chinedu Ekwunife passed away after fighting a two-and-a-half month battle with COVID-19-related complications. Throughout his many days of illness and pain, he always maintained his optimism. Chinedu entered the ICU with the same courage and clarity that he brought to life and to the people and work he loved. I will miss his “fierce dedication to doing what is right” (his words and my sense of his core value), his counsel, and his friendship. He meant so much to the ECE 09 UNN community and to me personally. His physical presence is gone, but the lessons he taught us in life and while courageously approaching death will serve us all well for many years to come.

I first met Edu during our first year at the university. We shared a lot—not just as friends, but as brothers. We attended Uhere’s study center together, and at some point, he moved in with me in our family house. My family truly loved him. I learned a lot from Edu, who guided me through some difficult decisions in life. He was a friend and a mentor. When Edu moved to the UK to further his education, he met my younger brother. They both studied software engineering (MSc) at the University of Southampton. They shared the same apartment throughout their MSc days. My brother also shared many good words about our dear friend.

After graduating from Southampton, Edu served as a software developer and engineer in many multinational companies. He worked as a Scala developer and software engineer at HM Revenue & Customs for more than a year before moving to BBC, where he progressed as a big data developer for 7 months. He then moved to Accenture in February 2014, where he worked as a software engineer for more than 2 years. In March 2016, he joined Rail Delivery Group in Ipswich, United Kingdom, as a senior software engineer and quickly became a big data infrastructure development guru. After approximately 2 years, Edu moved to KCOM in Ipswich, where he again worked as a senior software engineer for 3 years. In early 2019, he joined Lucidworks as a senior software engineer, where he remained until he passed.

Edu lived a Christ-like life. He was humble, calm, and meek, and everyone loved him. When I started my new tech company, Edu was super proud, stating, “Pops, this is huge!” I cannot take credit for my life’s achievements without mentioning my dearest friend Edu. He introduced me to the company where I did my NYSC, which helped my career grow. Chinedu certainly made my world a better place. He left behind a wife, a beautiful daughter, and an unborn child; I will support them as long as I am still on this Earth.

My dear friend, Edu, I will miss you and your ever-smiling face. You are one of my heroes. May you rest in the peace you so richly deserve.

From:

Father Elobuike Anthony Asogwa

"²⁸ Come to me, all who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest.
²⁹ Take my yoke upon you, and learn from me; for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls." (RSV-CE Mat 11:28-29)

Have I heard you well?

Does anyone else hear this?

Could Chinedu Ekwunife have heard you, Lord?

Where is he now?

Perhaps, these questions have been stirring in our hearts, dear ladies and guys of Fedi '03 set, ever since we got the news of the passing away of 'Edumo' as we fondly called him.

I was privileged to be notified by Edumo's elder brother about an hour after this painful departure during the night of 14th June 2020... and trust, it shook me to the depths...

But haven't we God as Father to talk to? Since then, everyday, I've offered the Holy Mass, memorial of the greatest sacrifice of all times of the Eternal Son to the Father for the repose of the soul of Edumo, my greatest pal, our best!

Actually, he left all of us a wonderful example of excellence, diligence, humility, piety, especially friendship.

Edumo was the only friend that freely visited me at home after we had passed out from FGCE, while awaiting university admission; for me, it was quite heroic, judging from worldly standards, after all, he was far better than me in many respects.

"²⁹ ... learn from me; for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls." (RSV-CE Mat 11:29)

Edumo was simply learning from the Master.

On meeting again in the university, he gradually coached me in friendship with God and friendship with other persons, irrespective of academic, social, religious, or cultural background. Ask anyone that knew him!

How he combined deep friendship, strong academics and vast cultural grounding is a miracle!

Lord, I think you had a hand in it, and I saw it... in fact, I saw You in him, and I followed you.

I hadn't found a better friend than You, Lord, through Edumo's faithful friendship.
Of course, why should I not, and no doubt, you my dear colleagues of Fedi '03 set, be indebted to him. Your posts in this platform already are evidence of this.

He taught me and many of us, I suppose, that only one thing necessary: HOLINESS! HEAVEN!

"⁴¹ ...Martha, Martha, you are anxious and troubled about many things;

⁴² one thing is needful. Mary has chosen the good portion, which shall not be taken away from her."" (RSV-CE Luk 10:41-42)

"⁴⁸ You, therefore, must be perfect, as your heavenly Father is perfect." (RSV-CE Mat 5:48)

Lord, where's Edumo, now?

Lord, as we pray for his rest, I pause to think, hasn't he acted as he always did to go ahead of all of us, answering Your call?

"²⁸ Come to me, all who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest." (RSV-CE Mat 11:28)

Edumo, you must have beaten me to it once more, going ahead to meet our Lord and urging me on, urging us on.

Let's go ladies and guys of '03 set! Follow our Lord, united with Edu, in this blessed Communion of Saints. Him, beyond, while we remain sojourners.

The last time I met Edu was in Rome, 5th May 2018, the day of my Priestly Ordination. As a true friend, he had gone all the way from the UK with his wife to Rome. Thank you, Edu.

While I was recovering from the euphoria, Edumo insisted that we cannot part ways without my blessing his young and pregnant wife and him as well. It was clear that he loved her and was devoted to his young family. We can also learn this from him. He died a faithful husband, father, son, brother and friend.

During his agony, we tried our best to accompany him and praying you, Lord, for his cure. We realise:

"²⁶ yea, Father, for such was thy gracious will." (RSV-CE Mat 11:26)

Edumo struggled till the end. Let's join him in the battle, with our focus on what matters most, despite the challenges: faithful to family, social, economic, religious duties.

"³⁰ For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light."" (RSV-CE Mat 11:30)

With our Lord Jesus as his friend, Edumo strove to fulfill his duties, which became easier, and urges you and me.

While we mourn, as a duty of justice, let's keep praying for him, though it might seem that he doesn't need it anymore, having received the Sacrament of the Anointing of the Sick the day before, the 13th of June.

Let's rally round his family with our support, moral and financial, as we're able to.

Edumo treasured these words of St. Josemaria Escrivá, the Founder of Opus Dei, and passed them on

"A secret, an open secret: these world crises are crises of saints.

God wants a handful of men ‘of his own’ in every human activity. And then... ‘pax Christi in regno Christi – the peace of Christ in the kingdom of Christ.’" (The Way, no. 301)

Edumo, rest in peace!

May Holy Mary, Mother of God, whom you loved dearly and taught us to love likewise, now assist you in your last journey.

From:

Nkobie Benita (UNN Classmate)

"Nedu", as I often called him, was a great course mate, friend, brother, with an intelligent and flawless personality. A boundless guy who sees no limit in the things he could achieve, eloquent in nature and a true child of God with the most beautiful smile one could ever think of.

Nedu! Your death is and will continue to be a big loss to me because you're IRREPLACEABLE. You have fought a good fight and your legacies will forever be remembered. Rest in power CHINEDU EKWUNIFE.

From:

Amadi Chikodi (UNN Classmate)

Like joke, you announced the high temperature! In a bit to care we kept on inquiring, insisting that the call to NHS continue and with a bit of push to make them respond.

Then the sudden damp, the phones could no longer connect. We felt that something would have happened. Perhaps they finally came...and our suspicion was correct. We remember your last message 'please pray for me'. That we did!!

From time to time the message on your welfare came. At some point, after asking for God's favour and mercies, we resorted to Thanksgiving. The progress towards recovery brought hope; the physio, the awakeness, the passing of urine, etc. We couldn't wait for you to tell us about your journey through the shadows of death.

Few days to when our hope was dashed, the news! Like many, I lost it, I didn't believe the news, crumbled and crushed in my imaginations and wishes. But then, this truly happened. I thought of our days together, I thought of the associations and...memories flooded.

Yours was a life that was lived happily. As often as I think of you, all I remember is that smile that came after 'omo', your often used exclamation. In your death, the true meaning of life played; all of us shall pass through this.

We take courage knowing that you fought hard and should have lived...and the fact that you are now in the heavens, away from tese toils and rat race. Live and merry in God's bossom where your kind being deserves.

To all those that are left behind, this is life and Edumo has just passed this stage.

From:

Anne Igboekweze (UNN Classmate)

Nedu,

Do you remember in our first year - first semester, you were elected to be the class rep of ECE'04 and I was assistant, lol. Our tenure lasted for just that semester because by the time we resumed for the second semester, some people if not the whole class wanted a new class rep (laughs). What a relief!!

Honestly, Nedu, I never envisaged one will be writing this at this point in time. Your transition came as a shock to everyone - far and near. For those of us who knew you were at the hospital, believed you would pull through but here we are - we can't question God, for He is always in control and has the Final say.

We take solace in the fact that you have gone to rest, in a better place where there is no pain, struggle or fight.

I give thanks to God that you knew and accepted Christ long before our first year in UNN (cause it was through you I heard and learnt of Opus Dei in UNN including how committed and involved you were) and you still maintained the faith all through till your moment of transition.

Come what may, we, your former classmates, will miss you likewise the young and the old you inspired and touched their lives in one way or the other. Memories shared shall forever remain our hearts.

Let your love watch over your wife, kids, immediate family and your loved ones you left behind.

It is well with your soul, Pioneer Class rep.

Kachifo

From:

Micheal Prince (UNN Classmate)

A tribute to my friend, coursemate and my flatmate Chinedu Ekwunife.

What most people dont know is that I met Chinedu fondly called "Edumoh" immediately after secondary school while waiting for UNN to resume in 2003. He was the first coursemate I met and was introduced to me at HillPoint study center in Enugu.

Then I was confused on what to expect when we resume but he was patient enough to clear all the confusion and made me feel confident; he fixed days I'd come so he can put me through the different courses especially the 1st year maths courses. He was down to earth and always willing to help. I have lost count of how many times he always made time to teach me some abstract courses while we were at UNN.

Edumoh introduced me to all the means of formation of Opus Dei. He was always there to encourage me to balance my spirituality and academic life.

Lastly, we were flatmates before he gained admission to travel to UK for masters. I can still remember vividly how we joked and laughed together after a rough day at work. He was a jovial friend.

I was shocked when I heard of his demise and everyday I wished it wasn't true. Edumoh was a great friend. He always made out time to listen and help when he could. May your gentle soul rest in the bosom of the Lord. AMEN.

From:

Mrs Lotachi Ekwunife (Wife)

I remember praying fondly for my potential husband as every young lady does at some point. I had a series of Godly traits lined up in my prayer and of course, I threw in some vain stuff into the list as well – talk about most ladies’ dream of the tall, dark, handsome - TDH collection. Fast forward to 2015, I met you and my thoughts were “Wow! How can one man have every good thing I desire in a husband.” You were smart, you were a good Christian and you loved me. You brought so much joy into my life; I knew what living a life of bliss felt like. I wish I could just pause my life and not have to live without you because each morning I wake up without you by my side, I get enveloped in profound sadness and I feel so helpless.

March 2020 seems so far away right now, hard to believe its barely three months ago. This period was the peak of the virus outbreak and I remember so vividly our discussion one of those nights when you told me you would fight this virus if you ever had it and you sure did put up a good fight, Ned. You went into the ICU hopeful yet fearless and you fought like a raging tiger! Dimkpa m! You fought till the very end… you held on and did not want to let go. You wanted to come back to us, but God wanted you more, my angel.

Everything reminds me of you, Ned, and I do not know how anything could be normal again. Before you went into the ICU, I asked you to stay with us. You replied, “I will” and encouraged me to be strong! Now, Ned, everyone tells me to stay strong! What does that even mean? How can I be strong without you? I was so scared when you had to leave for the hospital and now, I feel like I have discovered new horrific depths to being scared. I still cannot wrap my head around it. I was so hopeful! I have never prayed as I did. I was anticipating a miracle and a thanksgiving in church someday. But that never happened, because, now you belong to Heaven. I wish you could just come home to Chimmy and I. I do not want to be strong in this way, Ned. I don’t know what to do and in these few days of your passing, I find myself in various situations that leave me saying “If Ned was here, he would know what do, or how to handle this!” I cannot do this on my own, Ned, I really cannot do this. Please tell God to help me!!

You were so intelligent with an endearing warmth, that even as you went in and out of consciousness in the ICU your warmth still shone through to the nurses and all who cared for you at the hospital. The nurses said you were so involved in your care – asking questions and indicating your needs. They all grew fond of you, my love – but who wouldn’t though, you were such a charmer! They figured you were a clever one. They said you fought like a Tiger to be with your family and I felt so loved and emotional when they told me the first thing you wrote when you woke up was my name – Lotachi. I am so proud of you for fighting to make it despite the pain and discomfort. You are such a strong man, my love.

My babe, loving you has been the best thing in my life. You always wanted the best for me! You would tell me that you were my coach and I’d tease you saying otherwise but deep down, my love, I knew you were an awesome coach. You always encouraged me to be the best version of myself and when Chimamanda came along, it was such a sweet parenting journey because I had you. I felt so relaxed knowing that Chimmy had you as her father, first love, and guardian. I could trust you with everything. But despite being the smarter one (yea...I said that, Ned … *smiles* … just because you’re in heaven ...*smiles*) you encouraged me to teach Chimmy and I would reply that you would also be there to teach her too. I wondered why you choose to constantly remind me to do so. It all makes sense now though… You win! If I knew we had such a short time together, I would have been a better student, my love. Nevertheless, I did learn a lot from you. It is just so heartbreaking that I can’t show it to you and then we can tease each other and laugh over “who taught who or who is now the pro” … *smiles*. I feel so robbed! Robbed of all the smiles and laughter… all the jokes… all the good times we were yet to have…. Robbed of all of you, Ned! Chimmy and baby are robbed of knowing what an awesome dad you are.

Ned, you know how much of a planner I am. You made a remarkable improvement in the last couple of weeks and I was hopeful that June will be the month you will get discharged. In my head, I planned all we were going to do once you got back from the hospital – walks in the park, playtime with Chimmy, tennis games, home barbecue cookout, etc. Babe, I planned the church thanksgiving and our miracle/testimony story. Sadly! It did not happen.

You relapsed – your consciousness dropped, and you were moved to the highest level of support. Walking into your room with my divine mercy prayer book and rosary, I was ready for war, ready to pray you out of that hospital, I had had enough as it were; but on seeing my strong-willed Ned lying on the bed so helpless, I became a mass of emotions I had to pull on my last bit of energy as I cried to God “Please help him.” I arranged a video call with your family and a priest, where we celebrated a Mass for you. Afterward, the Rev. Father came to give you extreme unction and blessings. In all of these, I stayed hopeful, praying the divine mercy, and placing your hands on my growing bump so you could feel our baby growing inside of me. We prayed Ned, we prayed so much and sang praises. This was June 13th, it was the feast day of St. Anthony of Padua and the Novena to St. Padre Pio was ongoing. It all felt so significant and we called on the host of angels in Heaven to intercede for you.

The doctors had done all they could but unfortunately, they said you will not survive. “Not my Ned” I rebuked. The flood gates of tears broke open as a thought of life without you in it flashed before me in two seconds. All I could think of were the good memories, how you loved Chimmy and I, and every good time we had. Where will I start from? What will I do? How can I do this on my own? It was a terrifying two seconds of my life and as I jolted back to life, I cried to God to have mercy on you, on me, on the kids and to heal you. I couldn’t let you go, Chinedu! At this point, it could take only a miracle to save you and I held unto hope, listening, and singing along to “Raise a Hallelujah” until you passed on and I felt so disappointed. Practically, the whole world was praying for you. How could you have died? My Ned! My Babe!

Even as I write this I am still hoping for a miracle. I don’t know how it will happen, but I am hopeful, and reflecting on all that has happened in the last ten weeks before your passing, I now know that the miracle still occurred – God took you to heaven. Though it is not the beautiful and cheerful recovery I prayed for, certainly preferring this earth to heaven transition to occur when we were all old and wrinkly – it still is a big miracle! I, Chimmy, baby, your extended family, and everyone you know now have a new guardian angel and I know you are watching over us.

I stay consoled knowing that you had one of the best care regimens which is showing some promise in the treatment of COVID-19. You were part of the Dexamethasone Clinical trial and knowing how generous you were, I am sure you are happy to help with the trial. I am comforted knowing we celebrated masses for you, and you received your extreme unction just before your grand voyage to Heaven. Jesus Christ, in His infinite mercy, told St Maria Faustina that when the divine mercy chaplet is said for a dying person, He (Jesus) will stand in-between the dying person and God the Father, not as a just Judge but as a merciful Saviour. Knowing that we said the divine mercy prayers for you reassures me greatly that you are in heaven singing with your adorable voice with the angels and saints.

You were a visual representation of a Godly husband and father – loving, protective, and committed to our family. As an ardent advocate of accountability and hard work, you modeled how to work with integrity, and you loved and respected everyone around you. I am grateful to God for the fantastic three years we spent together, and I pray for the strength and grace to carry on with our plans and legacy. Some day in the close future when the kids ask me about you, I will tell them they have a Super Dad who lives in Heaven because he is so cool!

I love you babes.

I love you, my guardian angel.

Chimmy and baby send you a face full of wet kisses!

Rest in the bosom of the Lord!

Forever your beloved,

Lotachi

From:

Maridan Aghara and family

Dearest Nedu, Our beloved in-law. Life can be so cruel and unpredictable. Your life on earth seemed all too brief but we will always fill your departure with a remembrance of joy, happiness, laughter, and smile. My Omugwu visitation after (ada) Chimamanda's birth will ever be an unforgettable memory because you made my stay a joyable and exciting time. You were a loving father, an affectionate husband, and caring to others around you.

A poem once said, "Good people are like a candle; they burn themselves up to give others light". You did your best for all, indeed you have shown to portray this special kind of light in the life of others.

Our lips cannot speak how we loved you, our hearts cannot tell what to say, but God knows how greatly we missed you. You will never be forgotten. What a painful Exit! Adieu, our most beloved Nadu. Farewell, Farewell, Farewell till we meet again.

From:

Chiagozie Peter

Everything happens for a reason, The thought of never seeing you again brings tears to my eyes, And even more so, Because all of this was such a surprise. But we should never question what God has planned, Sometimes it's not meant for us to understand. So as we sit here and mourn the loss of Chinedu Ekwunife I pray God almighty grant you peace of mind And in our hearts you'll keep living forever. Rest well beloved friend

From:

Uju Ejehu

Dear Chinedu! You will surely be missed. Keep resting!

From:

Nkiru Menakaya

It's still very difficult to believe what has happened and for the past 10 weeks, we hard strong hope that you will pull through and back to your beloved young family, but that hope has dissipated. We know only God knows in his wisdom knows why. When I heard you got married to my niece Lotachi, and we heard a chat on the phone, you were in London, it was like we've known for years, you were very pleasant, full of ideas. I recall in 2018, the first time I visited Ipswich when your baby arrived, you insisted when you came back from work that we should all go out for me to see places in Ipswich. I said may be next time, but you will not have that excuse, since I was leaving the next day. The memory of that evening outing is what we keep. Your life was a blessing, your memory will remain a treasure, You will be missed by family and friends beyond measure. May the Angels guide you home. May they lead you to the Almighty Father. May you find amity. Although you are no longer here in flesh, we know your spirit will always be with your young family, Lotach and children. May your Soul Rest in Peace. Amen GoodBye.

From:

Umeh Somtochukwu

Chinedu was an uncle to me and my siblings, he was smart and persistent. He loved smiling, very hard working and a goal getter. I pray he will rest in God's bossom. Amen.

From:

Aghara Jachimma

Although you lived a short life, you had a great impact on your wife and cared dearly for your daughter. She will be so proud of you. As she knows that u are watching over her, the kids and loved ones from heaven.

From:

Chinny Nwanna (Now Mrs Nebenu)

My sincere condolences on the demise of your husband. He was a great man indeed. We were classmates. I'm from FEDI 03 set also.
He was a lamp that couldnt be hidden. His light shone so brilliantly and brightly and impacted on everyone that came across him.
The amount of tributes on our platform is so overwhelming that I wish it could be made a book and kept for his daughter and unborn child to read in years to come.
Chinedu was a brother too. I'm also from Nibo and he would always check on us every Christmas in villa after we left FGCE. My twin and I and our younger brother were all set of 03 and were very fond of Chinedu cos he always kept tabs and cherished friendship.
My heart goes out to you and his mum most especially. Tears and beautiful memories are all we have and would cherish of our friend and brother.

From:

Mrs Chinwuba Nne(Nee Ekwunife)

A Rare Gem has gone to be with his maker ,Rest in paradise Beloved.

From:

Ike Ogamba (Friend)

"Don't you worry child, Heaven's gonna pray for you" I remember you dancing to this song when I visited you in Newcastle. Earlier that year we stayed together at my place in London and everyone thought we were brothers because we lived like one.

I remember how you will call me "De man" and how you will say "cool stuff" in our discussions, as well your very unique laughter. We shared and supported each other a lot. Since your demise a lot of memories come with your voice in my head. Last time we spoke was ending of March and I can’t stop trying to recall that conversation.

Edumo, you were a great guy, a caring friend, a good man, easy-going and true to your word. You lived a good life, loved your family and the Lord.

I share some lyrics of some songs I have played repeatedly since your demise: "There's a time that I remember, when I did not know no pain When I believed in forever, and everything would stay the same Now my heart feel like December when somebody say your name 'Cause I can't reach out to call you, but I know I will one day, yeah"

"It's kinda hard with you not around Know you in heaven smiling down Watching us while we pray for you Every day we pray for you Till the day we meet again In my heart is where I'll keep you friend Memories give me the strength I need to proceed Strength I need to believe My thoughts big I just can't define Wish I could turn back the hands of time"

May your soul rest in peace my dear friend-turned-brother. Your great memory lives on, Edumo. See you when I get there!

From:

Uchenna Nnamani (UNN Classmate)

This was never how we planned it.

If anyone told me that you will not read my daily get well messages, I would not have believed it

Brother, where do I go from here, I am still in shock.

All your academic and professional guidance who will give me that now.

Academically you were the only true guidance and the reason I aimed high, gave me an opportunity for a scholarship and my motivator and true informer in my application development endeavor.

Professionally your sincere encouragement and knowledge has always shaped this part for me.

“Uche forget it ” that is your angelic word that follows before I could even finish apologizing

Brother, this is not your time. But God Loves You more as they say than I can understand

You will live forever.

I thank God for knowing You.

From:

Charles Chukwudi (UNN Classmate)

Chinedu Ekwunife (Edumo Ned) as we fondly call you, the news of your death is like when someone suddenly fell from an unexpected height. I can't still can't believe that am typing this tribute to a wonderful and caring colleague. The memories we share back in the university days keep flashing as each day passes by. Edu, you are a good man and a good father, a resourceful being who could have rescued this country in some extent but the cold hands of death took you away from us. I pray that God in His infinite Mercy, Grant your soul eternal rest till we meet to part no more.

Adieu my Engineer, Farewell brother.

From:

Echelon Umeh (UNN Classmate)

I write this with pain in my soul over the shocking loss of a great friend to CORVID 19. Edu was just 35.

He was young, vibrant, smart and intelligent, an achiever, and still with great potential to do more.

We collaborated right from our first year in school, but he had more to offer me as regards our academic pursuit. He was always ahead of the park in matters of academic and life, with enough time cut out to bring others up to speed. He related with the low and mighty, without any form of discrimination.

After graduation from UNN, he worked in a few IT firms in Lagos. During this period, he was a great source of encouragement as I was equally in Lagos trying to figure out my career too.

Throughout his stay in the UK, he never failed to seek my view whenever he made major decisions in life.

We lost communication recently, and I was shocked to my bones when I heard about your death, Edu.

Please forgive me as I never knew you were battling with this wicked illness.

I pray that God almighty will give Lotachi and the kids the fortitude to bear your premature death.

May your soul find rest in the bosom of the Lord, in Jesus Name, Amen!

Your friend, brother and project team member

From:

CC Agbo (UNN Classmate)

To a great friend, classmate and colleague, Chinedu Ekwunife. On April 06, 2020 you messaged to update us about your health. You told us you were already in the hospital and was being taken care of. You ended with these words: “please, pray for me.” There’s no way I could have imagined that those were the last words I would read from you. On April 04 when you chatted with us about your health, these were your words: “my time never reach abeg, we will defeat this stuff.” You were always positive and full of life. You asked us to pray for you, we did. You said you would defeat the COVID-19, we believed you. So, what happened, my friend?

I met you in 2004, it was our first year in Electronic Engr., UNN and you were the class rep. We became close when we both got the Undergraduate Scholarship from Total Petroleum Nigeria Ltd., in 2006. In our final year, we were project teammates, we both went to Owerri together in 2009 to present our project at the Nigerian Society of Engineers Students’ Project Exhibition; our project was eventually awarded the Best Students’ Project nationally. I still have the picture we took the day we defended our final year project in UNN; of the five of us in the picture, you’re the only one with a bold smile. You graduated with a First-Class! In 2011, after our national service, we both got the very competitive NITDA international postgraduate scholarship award. You proceeded to the University of Southampton, United Kingdom for your MSc while I left for France. After your MSc, you got employed immediately in the UK. In 2015, I visited you in the UK and spent the Christmas with you. I still have the picture we took on Christmas day (December 25, 2015) over bottles of Guinness Stout at your place in London. You were most hospitable and I promised to return the favour when you come to Canada. You said you would visit. So, what happened, my friend?

Chinedu Ekwunife, you’re about the coolest person I have ever known. I can’t recall ever seeing you quarrel with anyone or use swear words. You were always smiling and always willing to help. The guru (as we fondly called you), you were a man of many gifts; very dignified, handsome, charismatic, witty, smart and versatile. In addition to these, you were very intelligent and successful in all you did; you excelled both academically and professionally. And you were a great husband and dad too. Yet, none of these got into your head, you still remained humble, Godly and of decent character. You were a role model and an inspiration to many. To think that you have gone with all of these virtues, is utterly devastating, to say the least. You’re only 35, Edu. You couldn’t have worked so hard to come this far, only to die so soon. So, what happened, my friend?

I know it wasn’t your fault. I know if you could, you’d still be here with us. You fought hard and long to stay alive, but God knows the best. Rest in peace, my friend. We shall miss you! Goodbye, my friend.

From:

King Ezediaso Anyichie

Rest on brother, God knows the best. You are in a better place.

From:

Chimere Anabanti (Friend)

I met Chinedu within the first few weeks of my gaining admission to study Mathematics at the University of Nigeria, Nsukka (UNN). We met about twice within a space of ten days; each of the two times, he gave me a flyer inviting me for a program at Uhere Study Center, Nsukka. It was the third time that I opened up and had a chat with him. Other senior fellows that attempted inviting me for the same program at the center did not succeed, but Chinedu succeeded the third time. We got closer and became friends since then. Knowing that we both taught in the same lesson center in Enugu and that I took over from him, even without meeting him in person then, even made us closer.

We encouraged each other through the undergraduate years. You were in the second year of the five years degree program in Electronics Engineering while I was in the first year of the four years degree program in Mathematics; at the same UNN. We both graduated with first-class honors in our respective disciplines.

Moreso, we were close as brothers, even before we realised that your mother's sister is married to our Professor Charles Okafor. You remember when you came to Amuvi on a very short visit within 'that Christmas', you alerted me while on your way, and we met in Professor Charles Okafor's house. 'Prof' was really surprised that we knew each other.

Coincidentally, we went to the UK at the same time to study for a Masters degree. I remember many things we shared together. 'Edumo of Edumos', you know them all...preparation for: your second main job in the UK; your traditional marriage in Nigeria; various investment plans, and many more.

In late March 2020, you called me to say that this COVID-19 is real oh...that I should ensure I always wear my face mask while leaving my house. I didn't realise that I won't hear from you after then. On June 3, 2020, I sent you some texts when I learned that you have started accessing your mobile phone in the ICU, but I got no reply. I have asked myself many questions that I know no answers to, but I believe the good Lord knows everything. It is hard to say: rest on bro.

From:

Maridan Aghara and family

From:

Ezeanyim Azokam(In-law)

It was with great shock I received the news of your death. I still can't believe you are no more. You were such an awesome, smart and intelligent fellow. I remember when I came to your house in UK, then I did not know anything about you. Your wife Lotachi (my cousin) took time to describe how intelligent, smart, innovative and kind her husband was. I was eager to meet you in person to know actually if it was true or that she was just in love. Lo and behold, when I met you, I was sure her words were golden. I met in you a kind fellow, a good husband, father and very highly cerebral person. Least I forget, by the time I was going back my pocket had been filled with some pounds from you. You were a source of joy and happiness to my cousin Lotachi. No wonder she loved you so much.

We love you but God loves you more. Rest on till we meet to part no more.

Adieu great In-law! Your memory lives on.

From:

Ugochi Adenola (Nee Aghara)

The news of your Chinedu's death as a result of Covid-19 disease left me in shock. During his treatment, I so much hoped that he would make it given his positive attitude, great will power and many reasons to live for. I can't emphasize enough how much we prayed, people who had never met him prayed as well but nothing worked. For the past couple of weeks I have been trying to unravel a lot of questions in my head particularly why this happened to him. He was young, happy and a healthy man full of life with so much energy. I prayed for a miracle but not even the Specialists at Ipswich Hospital could save him. I'm not sure why our prayers were not answered or perhaps this was all part of God's grand plan.

Death is indeed an inevitable part of life, a harsh reality that makes us question our own mortality and purpose in life.

Chinedu had a lot of great qualities. He was such a fun and giving person. He encouraged me to always be the best in all I do especially during my Masters program. My kids were so fond of him because he always put a smile on their faces when they video chat. And the absolute best thing about him was his everlasting love for his wife and kids.

Chinedu wherever you are, I know you are in a much better place looking after your wife, your kids and loved ones. Although you are no longer physically with us, you will remain in our hearts and your spirit will always be felt. You were God-sent, taken away from us way before your time was up, our Angel in Heaven.

Farewell Brother-inlaw and rest in the bosom of the Lord. Amen

From:

Chisim Chukwu (UNN)

You were consistently one of the best, always standing out everywhere you went. I’m greatly saddened by your demise. But I’m grateful for the privilege of knowing you while you were with us on earth. Your excellence inspired me in more ways than one. Rest well, Edu.

From:

Oby Sokei

Chineduuuu! I really don’t know where to begin. I have stalled for so long because I couldn’t seem to put pen to paper to express my emotions. I vividly remember Lota’s tear and worry laden voice when she asked me to pray for you the day you left for the hospital. I was so confident in calming her, as I figured you fell into the demography with an excellent recovery rate. Hours turned to days, days to weeks, and weeks to months, yet we stayed hopeful, praying, and interceding. Then came May, and you started to make good progress. I was convinced you will come home to your family by the next month and I looked forward to a joyful thanksgiving celebration, but here I am writing a tribute. Like a house of cards, all our hopes crashed to the ground, leaving us emotionally and physically drained as we struggled to come to terms with the grim reality.

I recall the beautiful Saturday morning when we spoke for the first time. We had scheduled a call as you were interested in knowing more about your wife’s bestie. I was a bit uneasy at first, but as soon as the call began, we found a rhythm only interrupted by the bouts of boisterous laughter we shared. I could feel how in-love you were with my bestie, and I was delighted you both would be together. I called her as soon as the call ended, to give my feedback and chat some more about you. Sometime within that year, we got to meet, and I earned the notorious “bucket chicken eater award”. It was such a lovely hangout. We parted on a high, anticipating many more hangouts soon.

Lota loves you so much and I got to know a lot about your amazing personality by seeing you through her eyes. One attribute that stood out was your intelligence. It captivated her. She also loved your dexterity and hard work. You believed in putting in the required effort to achieve the desired goals – no cutting corners – and this quality set you apart, as demonstrated by your exceptional academic and career accomplishments. Your strong Catholic background was another endearing attribute. You were indeed her definition of a complete package. In the lovely years you had together, you influenced her so greatly, cheering her as she progressively blossomed into a better version of herself. Ned, you were not only a wonderful husband; you were a fantastic father.

I remember all our calls and chats, and how you always appreciated every little thing I did – you took nothing for granted, and I looked forward to having a lovely reunion with you, Lota and the kids someday when I visit Ipswich. It saddens me to know that you are no longer with us and even more, is the sheer devastation Lota feels because of your demise. She desperately needs you ... Chimmy and baby need you as well. Your departure has left an enormous gap that cannot be filled, and I lack the strength and capacity to soothe her pain. No one can! However, I believe that even though Lota cannot see you, you will never leave her and the kids alone.

Thank you for all the happiness you brought her way.

I wish we could turn back the hands of time so we could still have you with us. We miss you so much!

This was not the plan, but we trust in God.

God sees … God knows ... God heals. May He comfort us. Rest in the Lord dear friend.

With love, Oby Sokei

From:

Acho (FGC Classmate)

Edumo...Edumo...Edumo... Your Mum said that the moment you died,the pawpaw tree 🌴in the compound at Nibo fell to the ground showing that na IBU DIKE...I seize to mourn you again....but rejoice for you are in Heaven... 🕊️

From:

Obiora Uba (FGC Classmate)

Late Engr Chinedu Ekwunife was a personal friend and a brother to me.Apart from the Demise of my Parents,Chinedu Ekwunifes Death has been another death that has really pained me so much,From the day Mr Obioma broke the news of your illment and suggested that we do a chain prayer for you ,that He is in ICU,I have been bothered and worried.i still remember his post,while he said he will get over this and we encouraged him and made some prayer declarations on him.never did i no it will be our last discussion.you could observe my curiosity asking about his state of health.Who are we to question God?. Edu has fought the good fight and awaits Him the crown of glory as St Paul said.Edu you were a living saint,and a role model to so many of us.Rest In Perfect peace my Brother and friend.Amen.😣😣😣😣😣

From:

Chinyelu Nebenu (FGC Classmate)

Chinedu anonymously came to check on us after we left Fedi every Christmas at our village home in Nibo. Unfortunately we were never home at his numerous visits and we never had a clue of the person who came calling while we were away even with descriptions. Little did we know it was Chinedu.
Finally one Christmas he made an unexpected entrance into our compound and we were wowed like where did he come from??? At that time I never knew he was also from Nibo! I'm not also sure Bukky knew. We all had a good afternoon that day reminiscing on good old times, uni and so on. He repeated the visit the following year also.
Chinedu had a good job and worked from home (something those that live abroad will crave and appreciate so much) so he had a very close relationship with his daughter. He nurtured her together with his wife just like a mother will do also. His wife had an office job I think because she was at work each time we spoke or chat. On one of the days we were chatting he had to cut me short because his daughter needed his attention. He said he had to prepare food for her. While he was at it, he fed her some yorghurt. I watched them. I ve never seen a guy that committed to a child honestly! Sadly that was our last conversation.
Chinedu's love for his wife and daughter was so intentional. Chinedu was super human.
I'm glad our path crossed Chinedu. Rest on bro 🌹😣

From:

Nelia Nk (FGC Classmate)

so so right.. SS3G...... Wow... The classroom in the other block... I tried a thousand times to put something down but.... Its so so painful... I remember our names fell on same day.. Usually we have shortage of broom. Instead of sweeping and giving me.. He will rather do entire sweeping..

Its so sad..😭😭💔. He was more like the perfect human..... First class all around.. Neatness, character, brilliant.. Name... Them.. Handles life with ease.

Rest on... Edu... 💔💔💔😭😭😭😭

From:

Nathaniel Chinweuba (FGC Classmate)

The pain is Deep. Edu was most brilliant but most humble, most intelligent but was never arrogant, I always admired his calmness in our class. Never seemed for attention. He never behaved like his Mum was a teacher in school. He had so much candour and humility both in character and learning. He was a devout Catholic and I always teased him about his finger rosary (which he wore consistently) whether it has influenced his IQ in any way. He will smile and say wisdom comes from God. I remember when we went to play football @ Southern Gate, Chuks Van Nistelroy, Emmanuel Oguduolu, Idoko, Tiyoo.etc. We selected players and said let him complete the other team after all he's a JB, he laughed and said abum onye ball natikles!!! I miss you Bro but God who gave you to us and to the world is all knowing and He alone will comfort us and your family. The pain is deep but your legacies are deeper. Rest in Power mate💔💔💔💪🏿

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Chuka (FGC Classmate)

I told a friend the day I heard the news that the world lost a special one. Because I know Edu as brilliant as he is would had invented something to his name. Still heartbroken 💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔

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Engr. Chuks Ude (FGC Classmate)

Edumo had the EXTRA...in every aspect of life.

I left what I was about to do when I heard the news. I tried to hold myself but I cried as I was trying to tell my family........ an hour call with him was like a minute ...a man that flows with ideas and positive energy ...

A great man, a visionary, a kind man.

Plain and simple with an excellent spirit....

May his soul rest in peace...

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Mbah Cletus Chigozie

Comment sections has shown how great u were to ur family and friends at large much saddened that u are no more to be with ur young family and probably contributes ur part in our nation building but we can't question God .....RIP

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Christantus

3 times our paths crossed, I remained in awe of you because of your dedication. Now you are surely in a better place, continue to rest in God. God console, bless and protect your family... Amen

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Olisa "Zaza" Nwizu

I took my time to read through all the out pour of heart wrenching but goodwill messages here, then it dawned on me that though our parts really never crossed again since 2003 after FEDI days, it really is an honour to have been acquainted with you, because you were a LEGEND! Rest on big man, truly, the world and Nigeria in particular just lost a Gem.

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Louis Ossai

You were so exceptional in many ways Edu, a man with a good heart and a true example of humility. Rest on in the bosom of our Lord. Amen

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Mrs Umeh Chinenye Tracy

I do not know much about him but I know his brother, Dr Obi Ekwunife. It is sad that I got to hear of him when he was admitted at the hospital. Mr Chinedu fought for his life but God knows why it had to end this way and we won't question Him. May his soul rest in the bossom of our Lord. May God grant his family the fortitude to bear the loss.

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Michael Omenugha

My Dearest Senior, You lived a modest and worthy life. Your exit is a great loss to humanity. We are consoled that you are surely with God in heaven. May God console and strengthen the beautiful family and beloved ones you left behind. Rest in peace. Amen.

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Ejie IL

Rest in peace Chinedu, we prayed earnestly for your recovery and believed you would pull through but God had the final say. It pleased the Lord to call you to rest at this time, we cannot question Him although we are really pained. We pray the good Lord grants you eternal rest in paradise and bring comfort to all your loved ones especially to your young family in Jesus name, Amen...

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Sunny Okoro

Kai...gone so soon. Still in shock this happened but what can we do? May your gentle soul rest in peace bro. A very selfless guy indeed, humble, gentle, always smiling. God will continually keep your family bro. Writing this in tears. Really speechless.

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Chidinma Igboko (Cousin)

I just came across a conversation with you sometime ago and we talked about death, you said "please life is too sweet, not yet". Life was too sweet because you put all the flavours in it. With everything you did you put extra sauce and shared that sweetness with everyone around you. It was very difficult not to notice you. I remember always looking forward to seeing you in all those NNPC undergraduate scholarship exams we happened to always bump into each other. And each time any of my course mates that attended would take a report back to school about that fine boy I said was my cousin who just happened to always be listed with me all the time for all the scholarship exams. I just said to them... 'it's the blood, we are smart like that'. You even made me proud of being me, Chinedu. We talked about a happy death and we did not expect this to be it but truly now I see it all. Once again he gave us the chance to see you smile and you made us smile, he showed us your strength and courage and you left us words to keep us strong and courageous, we are at peace because we know that you were at peace with God. What more could we ask for? When we heard you had gone into hospital, we prayed and Chukwuma promised that once you came out, he'll let you beat him in one game of table tennis. Shortly after you were admitted into intensive care, he promised he would let you beat him in all the table tennis games you two would ever play. Now I do not even have to hold him to that because you would be having loads of practice with all the other angels and saints who are all full of perfection. Even my silent prayer for you to be here when I had Urenna was granted even though the plan was for you to continue to recover and come home to meet her at some point. Little did I know you would leave us some days later on the 14th of June, Olanna's birthday. You can be sure now that every year her birthday candles are lit, we would light a candle in your honour, celebrating your life and reflecting on all these cherished memories you have left us. Rest on dearest cousin, and permit me to join all the others to say, catch you later.

From:

Mrs Chinwuba Nne(Nee Ekwunife)

Chinedu was an uncle to me and my siblings, he was smart and A Rare Gem has gone to be with his maker ,Rest in paradise Beloved.

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FGC Enugu Class of 2003.

Tribute to Our Beloved Chinedu Ekwunife

Chinedu, the news of your death will remain a shock to us forever. You commanded so much personal power that earned you the connection of many hearts in our FGCE Class.

You reached out to our FGCE Class on WhatsApp asking for prayers when you tested positive for corona virus. For the two months you battled with the virus in the hospital, we prayed individually and collectively as one family but God knows best. We had hopes from the positive recovery reports but after a while, the news went the way we never wished. When we heard about your death, we all knew that power had left our unique FGCE class of 03 family. The news of your death made everyone to question life.

Many of us have looked up to the heavens in shock asking God, "why Chinedu?" No one deserves to go too soon but you were like our "human model" in FGCE Class. God endowed you with an extraordinary brainpower and excellent relational abilities which gave you a high personal power that drew people to you. If there were a crown of kingship for our FGCE class to wear on merit, you deserved to wear it. Everyone saw you beyond an example. Everyone saw you as a model. Edumo, everyone believed in you.

You were amongst the few who we knew would be the best in your chosen field. You showed God's distinction in your life at University of Nigeria, Nsukka where you made first class in electronics. With NITDA scholarship, you travelled to the United Kingdom for master's degree and you displayed masterclass excellence in software engineering. In the industry, you were successful and progressively making waves. You left us when the ladder of success was ready to turn to an escalator for you. At the mention of your name, we see God's grace, gifts, and fruits for achieving excellence. Everyone that knew you had this feeling that you would one day become an inventor or a renowned global genius.

Outside the confines of brilliance, you believed in God and in people. You had a large heart that welcomed people. While people chose you automatically due to your personal power, you still believed in reaching out to them to build friendship. From the tributes posted in our WhatsApp group, we discovered that many people were connected to you personally. Silently, you believed in knowing people personally with your uplifting positive energy. Your brilliance may have attracted people, but your free spirit made those who came close to stay. You had an extraordinary magnetism. You are every parent's desire in a child.

In Psalm 97:11, it is written that light is sown for the righteous and joy for the upright. While you are not here to reap the light and joy sown for you on earth, we believe that you are in the kingdom of light where joy is limitless. Your family will reap the light and joy sown for you on earth. Many of us already see you as light in our lives and joy to our hearts. We will uphold your name as light and joy in the lives of people around us.

The thoughts of your heart were thoughts to facilitate the lives of others. You were a great thinker of how to make things easier, better, and faster for people. You invested your brainpower to creating environments where people can do things easily without stress. You left without giving us everything you played in your mind. In Isaiah 32:8, it is written that a generous man devises generous things, and by generosity, he shall stand. While you are no more standing physically, you stand spiritually as a generous man. God will pour more than your extraordinary intelligence into your daughter and unborn child. As they give as you gave, they will stand as generous children.

God graciously promised in Isaiah 60:15 to make His children eternal excellence, the joy of many generations. You are God's child because you were our joy in FGCE. Everyone wished to know you. Many of us have began to think about what to do with your name. We will extend to posterity the story of God's glorious wonder to us: "Chinedu Ekwunife." Posterity will feel your joy through your name and the lives of your children. You are indeed an eternal excellence.

For your wife, daughter, and unborn child, we know that God is their ultimate Father but our FGCE class will graciously join your extended family to give our time, attention, energy, and money to supporting the growth and shinning of your family.

Chinedu, growing with us in FGCE was a revelation from God. God showed us a human model of excellence, freedom, and effectiveness. Many people wish that God will change His mind and give you back to us. Your image is beyond the you we recall. You were our model of all round human dignity.

Knowing you is knowing excellence, greatness, simplicity, spontaneous intelligence, positive energy, outstanding personal power, and integrative leadership. Whatever you touched became a special story. Whoever came close to you became better in many ways. We will continue to live with the rich lessons drawn from your life.

Our affair with time on 14th June, 2020 was deeply hurtful. We screamed. We expressed shock. We cried. We were speechless. We threw questions to God. We reflected on our own lives. The news of your death kept our minds still for many days.

Corona virus may have stopped your life here on earth but it didn't stop you from being in the Kingdom of God.

Edumo, as you rest with our Father in Heaven and our elder brother Jesus Christ, we congratulate you for transiting into the life where there is no more sorrow. Your life is an enriching book.

Edumo, we love you! Edumo, we miss you! Edumo, may your gentle soul rest in perfect peace! Amen.

Your special family,

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Professor & Mrs V.N.O.Aghara (Father and Mother in-law)

Chinedu my dear, your sudden demise has indeed left my family in shock. Honestly, we are still wondering if the hands of the clock could be turned back for your life.

It is barely 3-years that you took our daughter, Pharm Lotachi's hand in marriage. Although you lived a short life, our daughter related to us of your great impact on her life and your tenderly care for your daughter Chimamanda. Your wife is so proud of you and she believes that you are watching over her and your daughter from Heaven.

With your marriage to our daughter, we have been building successful cordial Parents-in-law/Son-in-law relationship. We have kept on imagining the day we would stay together and appreciate you, but alas, the wicked claws of death snatched you away from us.

Chinedu though death is a path every mortal must thread, the thought of your demise is as perplexing as it is unbearable. All the same, as Christians, in all things, we must give Glory to God. He alone, knows why you were nipped in the bud Eternal Rest O'Lord Grant Unto Engr. Chinedu Francis Akachi Ekwunife and let Your Perpetual Light Shine Upon him. May His Gentle Soul, Rest in the Peace of the Lord. Amen. For and on behalf of Aghara Family.

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Ebuka Ibekwe (FGC Classmate)

Tot long and hard about this unfortunate incident and came to several inconclusive questions... " why beta people no dey last?" Secondly, can one have an underlying condition without knowing it? How come covid is soo deadly even with the best medical care obtainable abroad? Do i blame village people? Do i resort to Gods will? Its really sad to know a GEM is gone? Truly beta people no dey last on this earth. May he rest in the glorious blossom of the Lord.

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Sheila Ezenwaka (FGC Classmate)

I haven't commented on this group for a while. On reading the news of Chinedu's death, I had to comment .He is one guy I really admired because of his personality. Chinedu Ekwunife was extremely intelligent, calm, humble, had a great sense of humor and respected everyone even his mates. His life on earth is a lesson to all who came across him. No matter who you are, no matter your achievements in life or the position you hold in the Society , always be humble, have the fear of God, respect people, and always lend a helping hand. That is who Chinedu was. Your death was a shock to I and my elder brother, but I will celebrate your life because you are a Rare Gem and you worth more than Gold. Rest in perfect Peace Saint Chinedu.

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Dr. Obioma Ilouga (FGC Classmate)

I am short of words. Edumo motivated all of us. He was like a big brother to me. He called me crying when he Dad passed away and I tried to console him as much as I could. He always kept in touch. The last time i saw him was during my brother inlaw's wedding in London. He accepted the invitation as soon as I told him about it. The most amazing thing was that he came with his wife, who was heavily pregnant at that time. He remained the cool, calm and calculated gentle man that we always knew. God fearing too with an awesome sense of humor. Edumo is definitely one of the smartest guys i have ever known. He excelled both in the sciences and arts. I used to say, in Fedi, its Edumo and then the rest of us. We will always love you Edumo and you will surely be missed. The world has lost a genius.

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Engr. Ifeanacho Okoye (Memories of SS3G)

Edumo had this sparkling touch in all that he does. I will always remind him as class prefect that his name is on the list to sweep the class. Just mentioning it,he grabs the broom and sweeps perfectly that next assembly....the neatest senior class is SS3G. Edumo...who will call me ACHOMA again💔 but we shall meet again...REST WELL!

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Chukwudubem Ekoh (FGC Classmate)

Edu' s passing has been a very difficult event to bear. In all my memories about him, I've never seen him violent, noisy, nor see him come under the whims of youthful exuberance. He was always cordial, gentle, quiet, thoughtful and focused. I still remember how boys used to form bodyguards around him during exams back in fedi, but most importantly, how it was a sure thing that he would pass any type and kind of examination.
The last I heard of him after fedi was at the time of his wedding, then COVID, then this. Its a tragic event indeed, but in all things, we must give thanks. He may not have lived life to the fullest, but he lived a fulfilled life, and that is what makes Him exceptional, both in time and eternity.
Rest on Edu. This is painful, but unto God we are grateful.

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Obianuju Kalu Bounty (FGC Classmate)

I prayed!!!!
I prayed Edu!!!!
I asked our Lady of perpetual help to help us!!!
We weren't so close back in FEDI but you kept in touch.

You are my superstar!!!!

You talked me into going for my masters degree even when I told you how life was with me and family. How I needed to WOR and support my younger siblings to go through school.

You kept in touch Edu.

You taught me never to give us. At some point I wished we were so close back at FEDI maybe,maybe just maybe I would have been a "Super Hyper".

Edu you made me go through my MSC with tough bones. Each time I want to give up, I remember our chat.

"Obele Obianuju you can do it, just start"

I left all my jobs for Monday and Tuesday to honour you my dear Friend. You were indeed a great guy.

At some point my husband began to wonder who this guy was really that made me feel soooooo broken.

I can imagine how your beautiful wife is feeling right now. Smile down on us bro. You were awesome!!!!.

May Your beautiful soul rest in the best place with our Lord Jesus!!!

Much love from Obele Obianuju.

La nke OMA!!!!
If only cries would bring you back, I'm sure you would have been here.

From:

Bode Obe

No idea i'd be writing this just few months ago and it's been very hard for me. I remember the last job related conversation we had before your battle with the virus started. I could remember saying, don't worry about it, we'll continue when the virus thing is over. Little did I know that those will be my last official words to you on earth. I've known you for many years and we've shared a lot together, especially from our time in Newcastle.

All the many things we talked about keeps ringing in my head. I'm still very much in shock and lost for words but as children of God, we know you're in better place and we'll not mourn like people without hope, even though, we 'd have preferred you stayed with us a little longer. I'm not sure I need re-echo how intelligent you were, as that has been the common theme from the tributes so far, but your openness and passion for the things you do is something that'd be greatly missed as well.

You've ran your race and have finished well my friend. God be with us all till we meet again in His bosom.

Thank you for the all memories Chinedu.

From:

Okwudili Ezeme

Edu Ekwunife, you were nicknamed guru by the ECE 2004 class because of your approach to questions in class work. You were empathetic and related with everyone with your infectious smile. Your never shy away from responsibility as you became the pioneer class rep of our class. Your frankness is second to none. Your healthy competitive spirit is unparalleled. You lived a short but active life that touched humanity.

Your fight here is over but your story just began.

Guru! You were born well, you lived well and died well. Okwudili Ezeme (ECE 04 classmate and a friend)

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